Gonads rule!!!

We live in a world that celebrates misogyny, caresses and envelopes nudity and adores infidelity! Welcome to the 21st century where it is all about a perceived perfection! The "perfect" spouse, house, car, mind blowing orgasms and everythng else! we are controlled by our hormones, it has reached a point that anytime you state the fact that you won't be going home in the evening it is perceived to be some sexual binge! I mean who would ever have thought that you are just going to spend the night at a friends house to.........I don't know......maybe just catch up, talk , watch a couple of movies, laugh! The mundane stuff!

I was caught up in a conversation last Friday that got me wondering which world it is that i have been cased in! Maybe you may know about it maybe not, but there have been several cases of local university chapters that have ladies (for the sake of being polite, but they don't quite fit the profile) busy having photos of their vaginas taken with their consent, evidently with them smiling at the cameras being sent around. It is becoming so normal that these same "ladies" actually take their time to go through and compare pictures of their gonads! Please explain to me why they are called private parts in the first place..i know there has been the "Vagina monologues" but damn! There is celebrating femininity, but that's just self degradation! What i realised is that we are living in a new age where self respect and dignity is a dying commodity, no regard for life or privacy! That's why we rape, we kill, we have sex with no regard!
Don't get me wrong sex is a wonderful thing, it is God made for crying out loud, but we can't let sexual desires dictate our thought and action cycles. Not that I'm mary Magdalene of course, but physical and psychological restraint is required! We don't need sex, if we did need it like food, even new borns would be having it as well!!!

I am not here to dictate what you should or shouldn't do, choice is a personal obligation, just remember the basis on which you make those choices, i believe that in most cases due to lack of proper recreational stress releaving outlets, we are using sex as a form of release, escapism from what is really plaguing us all!!!

Studies show that increased sexual drive or repeated masturbation and such may be as a result of stress or depression. I am no sexpert, i just got this from a Psychologist who spent most of his life doing this, if i am not wroing it was one Sigmund Freud! Or someother deep and profound person!

The long and short of it all is, do i want or need to have sex, and if i do need it,what's buring inside me to the point that i really got to have it! If it's just acting on the visual, forget it! You don't need it!!!